Many Suncoast couples assume that a wedding ring settles the question of who makes medical decisions. It doesn’t. Spouses are not automatically authorized to make medical decisions for each other, and hospitals do not have to honor a person claiming power of attorney without the physical document in hand. A medical power of attorney, also called a health care surrogate or health care proxy, names the person who can decide about surgery, rehab, assisted living and caregiver choices if you can’t.
Experts say the person you choose should know your wishes and be willing to advocate for them, not for their own preferences. Gerontologist Sam Cradduck puts it this way: this person needs to advocate for your wishes, not for their heart’s desire. Just as important is making the paperwork findable. One expert suggests something a paramedic could spot, like a copy on the fridge, rather than locked away where no one can reach it.
Snowbirds have an extra reason to check the fine print, since notary requirements vary by state, including the states you travel to. Name a backup person, go over your wishes with your family, and use resources like FiveWishes.org or an estate planning attorney. Where does your family keep important paperwork, and can everyone find it in an emergency?
